Coach H emphasizes that success in sports (or any competitive field) is not the ultimate measure of true success. Winning games and championships may look impressive, but if coaches and mentors fail to prepare young men for life beyond the game — especially in their roles as husbands and fathers — then they have ultimately failed in their responsibility.

He’s highlighting the importance of character development, leadership, and personal responsibility over just athletic achievements. His message is that real success is about shaping young men into responsible, loving, and honorable individuals who will positively impact their families and communities.